Hey, I am not in a band. But I have gone on road trips with spouses that hated me and toddlers that also hated me as well as being in the car. And I imagine that is pretty much the same as going on tour for a couple of weeks with your closest frenemies, ie, your bandmates. Here are the 21 most sage pieces of advice to prevent homicide or suicide while traveling as a band. Thanks goes to Thor Harris, the percussionist for the indie rock band Shearwater.